You have probably heard jokes about the shrink-wrapped furniture that some folks have in their house. Don't sit on the couch. It might get dirty! I've actually been to homes where the chairs and sofa are covered with plastic. People actually try to save their furniture for special occasions and to keep them clean.
I suppose nobody wants a dirty couch, but guess what? It's supposed to get dirty! It's supposed to get used! You bought the couch to sit on, not to use as some sort of museum piece.
We can put all of our possessions on a shelf and save them for just the right time, but who decides when that right time is? Do we really want to lead a shrink-wrapped life? "Don't smile too much - it might cause wrinkles." Oh the things I hear sometimes. "My friend gave me that and I'm saving it for just the right moment."
That bottle of wine, your plastic covered furniture, the jewelry you have in that seldom-opened box - it ALL should be broken out now! What are you waiting for? Don't waste your life looking for moments still to come. Embrace what is already here. Just being alive is a special occasion. Being part of humanity is something that should be enjoyed every single day. Don't keep waiting for a special occasion. The special occasion is already here!