Different kind of Halloween

We all know about the traditional Halloween custom of dressing up and going door to door for candy.  It's called trick or treat because if a treat doesn't come our way (usually some kind of candy) we play a trick like toilet paper in their bushes or a few eggs thrown against their door.  I've told you before about another way to do the day though and it seems much more positive.

 

I've heard it called Backward Halloween, but it is such a good thing, it would hardly be backward.  Reverse Halloween is another way of describing it.  Instead of expecting something for you, give something to someone else.  Make it a day of volunteer service.  Help a neighbor.  Assist some of your friends with various projects.  All kinds of ideas make it a very productive experience.  Remember of course to follow safe practices, including masking (not just the Halloween kind).

 

Oh and the usual candy?  Well, instead of collecting candy, we could distribute candy.  Buy several bags of those small candy bars and go up and down your streets.  Visit some of the shops and restaurants too. Go to the fire stations, hospitals, offices, and libraries, and even to a senior center.  Don't expect people to give something to you, but instead give something to them.

 

You will be surprised at how many smiles you will generate with this different kind of Halloween.  Save something for yourself and salute your own good effort with a well deserved treat!

The Triduum of Allhallowtide

Just the mention of the triduum of Allhallowtide probably has you scratching your head, but that is what is coming up beginning tomorrow. We first have Halloween, then All Saints' Day, and finally All Souls' Day. This started out as a Christian observance. These days, while there is certainly still a Christian celebration of All Saints, the rest has become very commercialized and secularized.

Remembering the dead, especially our own family members, is a wonderful part of the three day observance. This particularly gets attention on the last of the three days. Many Catholic and Anglican churches will have special masses on All Souls' Day to pray for the departed.

Halloween gets the most attention of course. In some places, it is practically an actual holiday! People dress up in costumes and attend parties and it isn't just for the kids anymore! Oh and don't be surprised to find traditional foods like potato pancakes, caramel apples, colcannon (a traditional Irish dish made of mashed potatoes and kale), cider, popcorn balls, and soul cakes. There are numerous Halloween customs and trick-or-treating (going door to door in costume and asking for candy "treats") is probably the best known.

Of course a worldwide pandemic does change a lot. I hear a lot of talk about more zoom Thanksgivings. We can do the same thing for Halloween. I'm hearing though that trick-or-treating is safe this year.  Actually we can give those costumes a lot of attention using the internet.

I could easily go on and on about the many associated traditions for these upcoming three days, but why not look into it a bit yourself? Oh and whatever you do, be safe and have a positive experience.

suggested subjects

Equality and fairness are spoken of here often along with a number of charities and several people who happen to be heroes of mine. I've also written a lot about community activism, animal cruelty, hate crimes, donations and volunteerism, and all kinds of ways to make a difference in this world. Are there subjects I am missing? Can you think of some areas I should say more about?  I KNOW everything hasn't been covered.

I love to tell the story of those wonderful people who inspire me. Hopefully they inspire you as well. Some of these folks I have written about a number of times (and will likely write about them again). Since this blog is NOT about me, it really shouldn't be just my subject picks either. That's where you can really help out.

Do you know some superstars that I should bring to everyone's attention? Are there some charities or causes that really need to be talked about? Making this world a better place is a pretty big subject, but perhaps you can all help me break it down a bit more. Leave some comments below, and we can head in a number of different directions.  I'd love to see suggested subjects from many of you!

The Death of Colin Powell

Waking this morning to word that General Colin Powell has died. Powell was an American politician, diplomat and four-star general who served as the 65th United States Secretary of State and the first African American in that position.  Powell was also the 16th United States National Security Advisor and the 12th Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff.

Regardless of ones politics, it must be said that Powell was a trailblazer and had support from all kinds of people.  He was probably the most popular military figure since Dwight Eisenhower. 

In 2007, The New York Times published an interview with him in which he described himself: "Powell is a problem-solver. He was taught as a soldier to solve problems. So he has views, but he’s not an ideologue. He has passion, but he’s not a fanatic. He’s first and foremost a problem-solver."

This morning, former President George W. Bush, who selected Powell to serve as Secretary of State in his administration, praised him saying "He was a great public servant, starting with his time as a soldier during Vietnam. Many Presidents relied on General Powell's counsel and experience. He was such a favorite of Presidents that he earned the Presidential Medal of Freedom - twice."

Rest in peace General Powell and thanks for your service.

the high cost of cyberbullying

You might not have ever heard of Amanda Todd, but this morning I want to write about her and about her mother Carol. Nine years ago on this date, Amanda took her own life.  A documentary tells about her suicide, about her bullying, and about the terrible tragedy of bullying. Take a few moments and watch it.  Seriously.  It's important.  Watch with your family and with friends and share it with others.  Dark Cloud: the high cost of cyberbullying can be seen HERE.  The video is only 49 minutes long.

Before I go any farther, I also want to say that every struggle is different.  You CAN overcame crisis though and find hope and recovery.  Reach out.  Call the suicide prevention line.  Get help.  In the US and Canada you can call this number 24hours a day: 1-800-273-8255.

I want to condemn bullying in all of its forms. To intimidate, harm, or coerce someone is unacceptable. All life is precious. Everyone is entitled to respect.

Today is World Mental Health Day, the perfect time for attention to anti-bullying efforts and suicide prevention and for awareness and advocacy against social stigma. Today is the perfect time to educate yourself. Get involved. Listen to the story of Amanda Todd. Work to see that deaths like hers never happen again.

The film I mentioned at the beginning of this is a powerful one and, as I said, an important one. I hope you will watch and hear Amanda Todd's story. It is a tragedy that this young woman from British Columbia, posted a cry-for-help on YouTube and had at least two previous attempts at suicide, but kept being bullied until she felt she could no longer live. The incredible Justin Preston, who founded Rise Against Bullying, and is active in numerous LGBTQ organizations, is also featured in the documentary. Click HERE to watch.

Suicide Prevention Line 1-800-273-8255