Today would have been my mother's 98th birthday. Even though it fell five days before Christmas, we tried to make a big deal of it and celebrate it as a separate occasion. Mom always enjoyed making a big deal out of other people's birthdays, instead of folks doing things for her.
I remember back when I was a teenager, I decided to make her a birthday cake. Using a mix and following the instructions, I thought making green cake and red frosting (traditional Christmas colors) would be appropriate. The little food coloring I put in first didn't seem to make much difference, so I added more, and then some more. I had no idea that this extra liquid would cause problems with the baking. The cake never looked done, so I tried to fix things by using a lot of icing. Oh, and I didn't wait for the cake to cool - nobody told me. It was awful! REALLY bad. Mom didn't think so though. She talked about that cake for years and years.
She and Nana taught me about kindness - not actual lessons, but just by the way they lived. They both became heroes of mine. I've probably mentioned Mom here more than any other person, and that is certainly appropriate. Although this blog is NOT about me, it is about making a difference, and Mom certainly did that. Any good things that I might do I can easily claim that I owe it all to Mom.
She passed away in 2013, but I still miss her. I know I always will. So many times, I have wanted to call her up and share some little thing. Do me a favor folks, if your mom is still alive, call her up today, even if just to say hello. If your mom has already passed on, call someone else and let them know what you mean to them. Let's keeping spreading the love!
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