Thursday, July 31, 2025
differences
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
Watch what you say
I remember a television commercial for a deodorant, many years ago that talked about an airline pilot. Viewers were thinking of a man flying the aircraft, but in the last frame we see that it is actually a woman. Even those of us who fight every day for equality, can't get those images out of our head that we have been conditioned to see. When reading someone's biography, when we see that they are married, most of us still assume the opposite sex. Until recently many computers would try to correct us if we said "her wife."
Sometimes pronouns that refer to gender are misused out of ignorance. Our transgender sisters and brothers should expect that they will be referred to with the gender they have transitioned to. It is ignorant to call a man "she" and just plain mean to say "it." Human beings are never it. Oh and transgendered isn't ever proper even though many well-meaning people have used it. I could go on and on about the many reasons that one is wrong.
I was thinking that we need to watch what we say. Perhaps we also need to watch what we think. Is it conditioning or prejudice? Can we open our minds to see a bigger picture?
Tuesday, July 29, 2025
Give Me A Number
This isn't the first time I heard people talk numbers. During the COVID-19 pandemic I heard several times that some people would die, but not enough to be worried about. When should we be concerned then? Please, give me a number.
There are many wonderful people in this world doing great things, and it gives me pleasure to be able to write about some of them here and about things we can all do to make a difference. From time to time though I just have to comment on the other side of the coin. There sadly are people who just don't care about others. I don't get it. I really don't. I especially don't understand the preoccupation with numbers.
Every single person is entitled to the chance at happiness from the moment they are born until the day they day. It's not a case of some being expendable. It isn't that someone has lived a long time and therefore no longer deserves to live. That is simply nonsense. It doesn't matter who says otherwise - they are wrong. There isn't an age when people are no longer worthy.
Monday, July 28, 2025
Who or what inspires you?
Sunday, July 27, 2025
I'm positive
Saturday, July 26, 2025
Shrink-wrapped life
Friday, July 25, 2025
Life After Birth
In a mother's womb were two babies. One asked the other: "Do you believe in life after delivery?"
The other replies, "Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later."
"Nonsense," says the other. "There is no life after delivery. What would that life be?"
"I don't know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths."
The other says "This is absurd! Walking is impossible. And eat with our mouths? Ridiculous. The umbilical cord supplies nutrition. Life after delivery is to be excluded. The umbilical cord is too short."
"I think there is something and maybe it's different than it is here."
"No one has ever come back from there. Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery it is nothing but darkness and anxiety and it takes us nowhere."
"Well, I don't know," says the other, "but certainly we will see mother and she will take care of us."
"Mother??! You believe in mother? Where is she now?"
"She is all around us. It is in her that we live. Without her there would not be this world."
"I don't see her, so it's only logical that she doesn't exist."
To which the other replied, "sometimes when you're in silence you can hear her, you can perceive her." I believe there is a reality after delivery and we are here to prepare ourselves for that reality."
As I said at the beginning, these words are not mine, but I wanted to share this beautiful perspective on faith with you. Of course we all know that there is indeed life after delivery from the womb. How many of you believe in life after delivery from our earthly journey?
Thursday, July 24, 2025
Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody
Wednesday, July 23, 2025
just one
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
grateful
Monday, July 21, 2025
Remembering Robin Williams
You might remember him as the alien Mork or as Popeye the Sailor or as Mrs. Doubtfire, or dozens of other characters, but Robin Williams was really one of a kind. He made us laugh and made us cry and made us think. Today would have been his 74th birthday.
I will always remember the day he died. Spontaneous memorials sprung up all over San Francisco, the city where he spent so much of his life. Everyone had a Robin Williams story, and they were all positive stories. Sharon Meadow in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park, the home of the annual Comedy Day and where AIDS Walk was just held yesterday, was renamed "Robin Williams Meadow." Also, a tunnel painted with a rainbow on Highway 101, north of the Golden Gate Bridge, has been officially named the "Robin Williams Tunnel." He was loved!
It is sad that suicide cut short the life of this wonderful man. Please know that the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is always available and they understand that life's challenges can sometimes be difficult. You are not alone. Their caring counselors are there for you. If we can learn anything from his death, it should be of the importance of enjoying life.
Robin Williams gave us so much entertainment, but he also made us think. On this Monday morning as I recall his life and all the great moments, he gave us, I also remember some very good advice. Robin said "I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone."
Sunday, July 20, 2025
what goes on here
Saturday, July 19, 2025
The Late Night Place To Be
Clips from many classic late night television moments are available on YouTube and from other sources and it is fun looking back at those memories. Tom Snyder and Dick Cavett gave us some especially memorable conversations. NBC has been doing it longer than the other networks, but there is now a great history for both ABC and CBS too. I don't think it is ending any time soon, although there certainly will be more changes.
I can still remember Ed McMahan referring to The Tonight Show as "the late-night place to be." When Johnny was hosting, it certainly was. Late night television will still have a lot of offer, even if Stephen Colbert is gone.
Friday, July 18, 2025
it takes all kinds
Thursday, July 17, 2025
Goal!!
Wednesday, July 16, 2025
Of Human Kindness
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Just plain folks
Monday, July 14, 2025
Be a hero of positivity
Sunday, July 13, 2025
Trouble Tree
Saturday, July 12, 2025
The list just keeps on growing
Friday, July 11, 2025
honesty
Thursday, July 10, 2025
Meum Pactum Dictum
Wednesday, July 9, 2025
How much
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
Table cooperation
The process of working together to the same end, is called cooperation. It isn't a new concept, but it doesn't happen nearly as often as it should. I've even told you this particular story about cooperation before, but I really like it, and it's important, so I thought I would tell this story again.
Monday, July 7, 2025
Recognition
Most people become activists or volunteers or givers, because they genuinely want to be productive. That doesn’t mean that a little recognition is a bad thing or that they would run from it. If you are giving time to a non-profit, you usually aren’t receiving any money for it. Now hopefully you are there because you really like the organization, and you feel your gift of time and talent can be of assistance. That does not mean that your efforts should not be recognized or that you should not be thanked.
Years ago, a priest taught me a valuable lesson. I know this is NOT about me, but still, I want to share it. I would volunteer on a regular basis – at least once a week. Each time, when I had finished, he said two simple words to me: thank you. I try to always do the same now with others. It really doesn’t have to be limited to volunteer situations either. In the workplace, it’s nice when your boss thanks you with words and not just your paycheck.
Recognition goes beyond thanks too. Calling attention to the good work of others and letting others know of it, is another form of pay and one that recipients will greatly cherish. They may not go into a situation looking for praise, but a few kind words of recognition can really brighten up their day!



























