Sunday, September 7, 2025
The Twenty
Saturday, September 6, 2025
have I got some questions for you!
There are tons of ways we can give back of course. I humbly offer some suggestions that come to mind or tell you about some folks who have done a stellar job of being a superstar, but I need your help. I would love to know about some of the really positive people you may have encountered. Who is a hero to you? Tell us the what, when, where, and why too!
Friday, September 5, 2025
Be the spark
Thursday, September 4, 2025
what is the color of happiness?
Tuesday, September 2, 2025
The purpose of life
You probably already know my answer to the above questions. I think we are all here to each make a difference for the better. We all should contribute to the common good, but that's just my opinion.
Monday, September 1, 2025
This Labor Day
Sunday, August 31, 2025
That's beautiful!
Beauty can be on the buildings and even on the clothing that people are wearing, and lest we forget, beauty can be within the people we encounter, too (even when we are wearing masks). It's actually very rare to find a person who does not have beauty within. You don't have to even look hard - just open your eyes and open your heart.
Saturday, August 30, 2025
Strawberry, vanilla, or chocolate?
Friday, August 29, 2025
In times of personal crisis
Thursday, August 28, 2025
Surprise!
Each year I raise funds for AIDS Walk San Francisco and for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society's Light the Night Walk and I want to give thanks for all the people who have sponsored me there too! There are a few other organizations I want to mention, because they mean so much to me: Asian Americans Advancing Justice - Asian Law Caucus, San Francisco Community Health Center, and Transgender Law Center. Any gift to them would always be a marvelous thing!
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
Be a blessing
During this summer, in the midst of a lot of bad news, we can still be a blessing to each other. Things are never too bad for us to do good. I won't sugar-coat it and say everything will be back to normal soon (although things have obviously improved from a year ago). great right away, but if we all pitch in and do good, we will see a difference. We might not ever see things the way they once were, but that does not mean things won't be good. Let's make it so.
Friday, August 22, 2025
Dr King said
Thursday, August 21, 2025
Resuced!
Wednesday, August 20, 2025
Go ahead. Make my day.
Tuesday, August 19, 2025
You want an award?
Monday, August 18, 2025
What's on your mind?
Sunday, August 17, 2025
Is there anything more wonderful than a hug?
At the hospital where I volunteer, a woman said the other day "I could sure use a hug." You should have seen the smile on her face when I turned around and gave her one!
Friday, August 15, 2025
summertime kindness
Wednesday, August 6, 2025
Arizona sunrise
Tuesday, August 5, 2025
what's your favorite day?
Saturday, August 2, 2025
crumpled paper
Friday, August 1, 2025
this month of August
Thursday, July 31, 2025
Lucie's memories
Most of us are proud of our parents and perhaps other family members, but with Lucie there is more. She shares her personal memories of Mom and Dad and brother Desi Arnaz, Jr and of countless friends she has made over the years. For a number of years she served on the board of the Lucille Ball-Desi Arnaz Center in Jamestown, New York. I was especially pleased to see her talk about Billy Hinsche upon his death. (Billy, who died last fall, played with her brother in the band Dino, Desi, and Billy).
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
Recognition
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
At the hospital
"They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, and where they had been on vacation.
Monday, July 21, 2025
Remembering Robin Williams
You might remember him as the alien Mork or as Popeye the Sailor or as Mrs. Doubtfire, or dozens of other characters, but Robin Williams was really one of a kind. He made us laugh and made us cry and made us think. Today would have been his 74th birthday.
I will always remember the day he died. Spontaneous memorials sprung up all over San Francisco, the city where he spent so much of his life. Everyone had a Robin Williams story, and they were all positive stories. Sharon Meadow in San Francisco's Golden Gate Park, the home of the annual Comedy Day and where AIDS Walk was just held yesterday, was renamed "Robin Williams Meadow." Also, a tunnel painted with a rainbow on Highway 101, north of the Golden Gate Bridge, has been officially named the "Robin Williams Tunnel." He was loved!
It is sad that suicide cut short the life of this wonderful man. Please know that the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is always available and they understand that life's challenges can sometimes be difficult. You are not alone. Their caring counselors are there for you. If we can learn anything from his death, it should be of the importance of enjoying life.
Robin Williams gave us so much entertainment, but he also made us think. On this Monday morning as I recall his life and all the great moments, he gave us, I also remember some very good advice. Robin said "I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone."
Saturday, July 19, 2025
The Late Night Place To Be
Clips from many classic late night television moments are available on YouTube and from other sources and it is fun looking back at those memories. Tom Snyder and Dick Cavett gave us some especially memorable conversations. NBC has been doing it longer than the other networks, but there is now a great history for both ABC and CBS too. I don't think it is ending any time soon, although there certainly will be more changes.
I can still remember Ed McMahan referring to The Tonight Show as "the late-night place to be." When Johnny was hosting, it certainly was. Late night television will still have a lot of offer, even if Stephen Colbert is gone.